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"Standing up for something you believe is right is no where near a waste of time. It's time spent wisely for that matter." - candyycoloured.blogspot.com

so very recently, there was a little argument which grew into a huge one. All day i have been thinking about who my real friends are. before you continue to read you must understand that i am only posting my thoughts. so if you are offended in anyway, remember this: this is my blog, i can post what i want when i want, because this is my thought. So dont bother coming up to me in school and starting stuff. i had to say that, because something happened to my very good friend who had no intention of degrading or insulting anyone, and is now hated by many for no good reason. another point, you also need to know that David, despite everything else, was the most mature person in this argument. lol

first of all, let me explain what happened. i would like you to also know that whatever i say in here is not biased, as i am friends with both people and have known them all for a very long time. the thing i hate about it is, they are both my friends. I couldnt do much but sit back and watch it happen, but things got worse, and i just had to try to help what i believe is the right person.

OK. remember this is my thoughts. i may talk about you whoever you are, and you have every right to be offended if i do post something you dont like, but remember what i said above.

It all started off one night. Danny, my very good and trustworthy friend was making a funny post about asians and how strict most asian parents are, judging by what he has seen. At the end of the post, he starts to talk about asians as being smart thanks to the parents. He then sets an example of David Ngo, saying he is one of the smartest kids in the grade. First off, it sounds like a compliment, but this is where people misunderstood. Danny then mentioned that if David did not get 100% in any exams, school work etc, he would become suicidal. ok? al the other stuff was about how david is so smart in every subject etc etc in a sense of sarcasm and sattire.

now about that last line, apparently david Ngo went on dannys page and read it. he found it offensive and from everything i know, he reacted and took a screenshot etc etc.. after a day or two of jibber jjabber which in my personal opinion was started by david (REMEMBER THESE ARE MY THOUGHTS), danny nguyen couldnt take it anymore, he had an apple thrown at him and various other "threats" and hate coming at him from david supporters. So he got pissed. He went online and recorded a video telling david to take his screenshot (of the post) "and shove it up his - i carnt say it might offend him". LOL. ok IMO, this is where danny went wrong. I totally agree that danny should not have made this recording. BUT IMO, he couldnt take it anymore. he had to do something to show people AND david that he wasnt an unpopular kid at school who constantly gets bullied because of what he looks like. by the way, to all those who bully him, ur all pussies.

IMO. both sides are wrong in some time or another, BUT, IMO, it was david who started the chain reaction by reacting to a simple statement about his intellect. to be honest, i believe he had every right to do so. but this is a blog, anyone can post w.e they want. so he didnt have to do that, and take a screenshot and imply that he is threatening danny with it. david is my friend, and so is danny, and i have known david for much much longer, since year 3 or 4. But that doesnt mean i cant look at the situation and state what EYE (I) believe is right. now if you dont like this, just ignore me, because as you all know, friends sometimes have opposing views. I am not trying to pin david because he overreacted. i am only saying what i think, what i know. keep in mind that i truly dissagree with the VIDEO danny made.

but enough about david and danny, lets talk about danny and gordon. Last night, there was a CBOX war on gordons blog about david. unfortunately for danny (who wasnt very well known), gordon was sided by many people, of which some were also my friends, looks like he has a big connection LOL. anyways, i saw wat was going on and i decided everything was going the wrong way. so i had to help danny. somehow my sister (sophia) joined the argument, and i got angry at her for joining. and i have every reason to be. first off, she is younger than me and is my sister, and should not get involved in business that she doesnt know much about.

let me tell you also, Larisa, you said "why would people start wars when they know they cant win". in my opinion you are right, danny knows he cant win, there are too many people who against him, plus nobody knows danny so they all assume the most easiest answer: "stick with friends". But in case you didnt know, Gordon started the cbox war by getting himself involved in david and dannys business. In my opinion (you must understand gordon) i think you are a hypocrite. YOU told off my sister and dannys friends for getting involved in other peoples business when it was you, who got involved in someone elses business in the first place, and Because your page was, i would say "frequently read", many more people got involved. now if you read this, dont go off saying that you ARE originally involved, because you are davids friend, because if you said that, then probably a million people would be involved due to friend connections. now remember what i said before about getting offended or notliking what i say etc, stay away from my chatbox and finish reading first. you do know that i am taking a very big risk. i am also part of the group you belong to, gordon, and currently i am turning against it, just for a little while, so i can explain things in full detail for those who wish to know. :P
remember also, i am not intending to make you or anyone who has been involved, upset, i am stating facts and thoughts.

Now, i too got involved in the cbox war, and i have to admit there were quite a few people involved.(now if youa re thinking of returning the favour by calling ME a hypocrite, dont bother, because i only called u a hypocrite, i did not say that you couldnt join other ppls business) I assume that when some people read this, they would start hating me also, especially to those people who i have just started to bridge a friendship with like larisa. i am sorry if u dont like this, but remember this is only my opinion, and we all have opposing views once in a while. :)

Also gordon, you were saying that danny fuelled the fire, that is true, as i said earlier, i fully oppose with him making that video, but IMO, that fuel was already there, all it needed was the fire to light it. If you understand what i mean * remember the apple and various other things. remember, that danny had no intention whatsoever of degrading or insulting david in the first place. and remember that david had every right to be insulted by that comment and especially the recent video, but from what i know, he simply overreacted(to the first post), and it just had to spread all over the school. david you are probably wanting to choke me to death now, knowing how you have a bad temperLOL. Ok the following is totally not meant to harm anyone: to what danny said about david being suicidal, i beleive is true. what danny meant by suicidal is "getting all angry and agro and sad" but to his misfortune, he over exaggerated. IMO, if he said that about me, i would laugh and say, lol hes teasing me. And anyway it was posted in a happy and funny environment. and for those people who know david truly, you would agree with me. remember david, i am not trying to do anything to you, i am just... "Debating". If you believe that i dont know anything about david, i want you to know. I have been in many arguments and complications with david and we have resolved them with both sides happy, so i believe that i do know about how he reacts to things and the way he tends to solve issues. ONE MORE THING. during this whole stupid little lame argument, i think david was the most mature person of all. when danny apologised, he stopped like that. BUT NO some people had to go and start it up again. talk about fuelling the fire.

The thing i am most angry about is, that even though danny had no intention of insulting david, he had to go through so many asian ppls grudges, just because everyone is friends with everyone, and nobody knows danny. In the end, danny had to apologise to david, and i think gordon as well.. LOL, and this proves that he is the mature person. You never see him going around holding grudges.

IN MY OPINION. the only reason why 80% of people sided with david, was because david is a more stronger icon in the school. I also heard people going around saying how danny was a crazy cunt recording himself trying to be funny, well guess what you dicks, at least he has the guts to do that, and be himself and if you think that that is not the real him, you dont know him at all, which is why u bully him. Look at you sitting there, hiding your personalities behind "extremely advanced english literature blogs" ,as jimmy would call them: TeeBee blogs. ( i am only reffering to a minority of people, possibly only one or two people), at least he can stand up and try to use what hes got to amuse people. and it is amusing, it is funny. and for all those who dont know anything about the David situation, and have read Danny’s blog, you too will think he is funny. Unfortunately due to this recent incident, he had to remove all his posts and start fresh. and after he did so, i heard many people protest and request the posts be reposted, if you could know the numbers you would be surprised. Remember i am friends with all of you, and i regret having to type this up, but some things go a little too far. Even though the issue is over and resolved, i find the "after comments" of some people, immature, stupid and unwise words (no offence). That includes you my sister, you didnt have to continue, you could have just stopped and forgot about it, like everyone ELSE COULD HAVE.


I APOLOGISE to all those who i have made upset in this post. Especially IF i have offended David, Gordon or Larisa, or maybe even Danny, maybe Jimmy too. :) and maybe some others too. :P also to Linda, who rejected my Judgement.
But you must understand how i feel knowing how everything turned out from my point of view. im sure you have felt the same some time in your life.

and for those who wish to call me a SMART ass. i already know who you are. so please, just get over it. like i said at the top of my blog (###BEFORE YOU READ###) it is time for me to Suck it up, say hello to what i plan to do next, and move on. i hope you all do the same and forget any grudges.. you all know very well that this blog is where i post what i want, when i want.. the purpose of blogger is to post you thoughts freely, whatever it may be. thats why they call it a blog, its an online diary. and also to gordon, for calling my sister immature, i agree. but you did not have to use swearwords and the such.

no offence intented to anybody mentioned. thanks for reading.

ok this is the revised recount.

danny posted funny sarcastic comment about david on blog.
david reacted a little too much and a great big argument started.
lots of davids friends turned on danny, he had an apple thrown at him, and threats and hates etc.
danny made a mistake by recording a Vlog tell david to "take that screenshot and shove it up your - i carnt say that i might offend him"
people went ballistic. some sided with danny. LOL
danny saw it was going nowhere and apologised, david stopped.
gordon got involved and started it up again
i got involved
many more people got involved
thing got out of hand
bad words thrown around
my sister got involved WTF.
sister apologised
danny apologised again.
argument subsidised
stopped last night.

hopefully it ended now.

i dont want to start a war with any friends ok?especially with some of my recently newer friends who i have just started to bridge with, who somehow got involved because of the "Friend" factor. idk why this issue had to spread in the first place. you are all good people, but this is just a huge mixed up misunderstanding. the hard thing is, i am friends with both sides, what can i do? everyon is expecting me to "Be sensible", but over the last night. I have realised who my true friends are.